Planning time grows quadratically with IN-list size on main

[gafiatulin]

Describe the bug

restricted_column added in #24520 counts the distinct values in an IN list using Vec::contains making restricted_column quadratic.

ScalarValue already implements Hash and Eq so count can be performed via HashSet making restricted_column run linearly.

+ This happens even for tables without statistics since in unique_match_limit restricted_columnis called before the check on whether the column's statistics say each value is unique. Adding another check on all columns can allow skipping counting altogether:

fn unique_match_limit(
    predicate: &Arc<dyn PhysicalExpr>,
    statistics: &Statistics,
) -> Option<usize> {
    if !statistics
        .column_statistics
        .iter()
        .any(|column| holds_each_value_once(column, &statistics.num_rows))
    {
        return None;
    }
    let mut limit: Option<usize> = None;
    ...

To Reproduce

Plan with IN list of different sizes and observe quadratic runtime.

Expected behavior

Planning time grows linearly with the size of IN-list.

Additional context

No response