Use OpenSSL instrumented with TSan for TSan tests

[colesbury]

Feature or enhancement

In our TSan CI, we should compile OpenSSL from source with -fsanitize=thread. This will help catch thread-unsafe uses of OpenSSL.

Linked PRs

• gh-143750: Compile OpenSSL with TSan for TSan CI #143752
• gh-143750: Compile OpenSSL with TSan for TSan CI #153316
• [3.15] gh-143750: Compile OpenSSL with TSan for TSan CI (#153316) #153353
• [3.14] gh-143750: Compile OpenSSL with TSan for TSan CI (#153316) #153355